“More Life, More Intention” - Tulum Reflections in IDJHSWA - @Therealletty_

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Turning a year older in Tulum, Mexico felt like more than just a celebration it was a full reset. Sun, sea, and my closest friends surrounded me in the kind of joy that can’t be manufactured. Every laugh, every deep conversation, every moment of stillness felt intentional. I went into this trip excited to celebrate, but I left with clarity.

This birthday hit differently. I’ve grown into someone who doesn’t chase everything or everyone. I’ve learned that being selective about energy, about company, about what I wear and support isn’t about being closed off. It’s about value. That’s why rocking IDJHSWA during this trip just made sense. The brand’s message, “I Don’t Just Have Sex With Anyone,” isn’t just about intimacy it’s about self-worth, purpose, and power. It’s about not giving pieces of yourself away without intention.

Wearing IDJHSWA in Tulum wasn’t just about fashion (though the colors definitely popped against the jungle and beaches); it was about carrying a mindset. I’m entering this new year with boundaries, with softness, with strength, and with style that reflects all of that.

This trip reminded me that life is short, but it’s also sacred. I’m choosing to be more present, more grateful, and way more selective with love, with time, and with energy. And that’s exactly the kind of message I want on my chest.

Selective exchange is global, and now, it’s personal.  

- @therealletty

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